Pick Up Artist VH1 - Plausible deniability - Act with moxie

Plausible deniability

She will never do anything during the pickup that makes her feel responsible for what is going down. To whatever degree she feels responsible, her ASD will be activated.

Thus she has a need for plausible deniability. For example, if you were to say to her, "Hey, let's go back to my place and have sex," she will have to say no, even though she wants to say yes, because saying yes would make her responsible for what is happening— which she can never do.
But if instead YOU were to say, "Hey, let's stop by my place on the way to that party — I have to show you mv tropical fish." Well, she now has an excuse and plausible deniability to stop by your place and then — oopsie— have sex with you. "One thing led to another..."
This is why serendipity is so romantic. After all, if it was meant to be, then how can it be her fault? Who is she to deny Fate?

Act with moxie

Moxie means inventive courage. The venusian artist must always be leading
the interaction to where he wants it to go. This is partly due to the fact that he has no choice, since the woman won't take any responsibility for what is happening.

For example, it is necessary to keep things interesting during the opening phase of the game. If you don't make the conversation interesting, then she will raise boring topics — and then she will feel bored and blame it on you.

It's not fair, right? This pattern of behavior can be maddening. But the truth is, if she feels bored around you but excited around other guys, then why should she waste her time on you?
Make tilings happen. Take full responsibility for your shared experience with her. It is your job to act with moxie — to move from phase to phase, to meet the objectives of each phase, to escalate, to venue change, and so on. The rest of this book will explain exactly how to do these tilings.