Mystery Method
The Mystery Method is a method of seduction, first popularized by Erik Von Markovik a.k.a "Mystery". The system was initially outlined in posts on the newsgroup alt.seduction.fast. Since October 2006, Mystery is no longer part of the Mystery Method's website, and he has launched his own company. Mystery is responsible for coining a lot of terminology now used in the world of seduction: such as "3 second rule", "set", "peacocking", "indicator of interest", "indicator of disinterest", "last minute resistance", "routine", "neg hits", "canned material", etc. The Mystery Method is now marketed online, via books, DVD sets, and most notably, live seminars and coaching with various instructors, including Markovik himself.
Monday, October 29, 2007
Mystery Method
Sunday, October 14, 2007
Pick Up Artist VH1 -Style's Eliciting Values Routine
Style's Eliciting Values Routine
"What is the experience you most enjoy doing?" (She'll say dancing or being with family or something) Alternate wording: "If you had to pick one experience that makes life worth living...what would it be?"
"What is the ideal scenario of you doing that thing? Describe it."
"So picturing that right now, how do you feel.. .What emotions?"
"So really then, while I was asking you this, you smiled... and yeah it's kind of because I'm being a bit funny or weird or whatever... but also, it's because you could kind of feel that emotion right now, while we were talking about it... can you feel it., blah blah blah"
"So really then, even though your favorite experience is dancing, your core value is fun and excitement, and the way you feel those emotions in your body... So what's most important to you is the experience of fun and excitement, and whatever leads you to that is most important... blah blah"
"Ok, so in four minutes we've fulfilled your quest for core value. You can the now."
In other words:
1. Favorite activity
2. Description of her favorite activity in an ideal setting
3. What emotion she gets while she pictures this
4. Show her that she experienced the emotion while picturing it
5. Show her that what she really wants is not so much the activity (although it's important) but the emotional fulfillment she gets from it.
6. Now she can the happy ©
"What is the experience you most enjoy doing?" (She'll say dancing or being with family or something) Alternate wording: "If you had to pick one experience that makes life worth living...what would it be?"
"What is the ideal scenario of you doing that thing? Describe it."
"So picturing that right now, how do you feel.. .What emotions?"
"So really then, while I was asking you this, you smiled... and yeah it's kind of because I'm being a bit funny or weird or whatever... but also, it's because you could kind of feel that emotion right now, while we were talking about it... can you feel it., blah blah blah"
"So really then, even though your favorite experience is dancing, your core value is fun and excitement, and the way you feel those emotions in your body... So what's most important to you is the experience of fun and excitement, and whatever leads you to that is most important... blah blah"
"Ok, so in four minutes we've fulfilled your quest for core value. You can the now."
In other words:
1. Favorite activity
2. Description of her favorite activity in an ideal setting
3. What emotion she gets while she pictures this
4. Show her that she experienced the emotion while picturing it
5. Show her that what she really wants is not so much the activity (although it's important) but the emotional fulfillment she gets from it.
6. Now she can the happy ©
Monday, October 8, 2007
Pick
Comfort Building Locations
The location in which you first meet a woman is not necessarily favorable to building comfort. The music may be too loud for lengthy comfort building dialog. The crowd may be too congested. Your romantic interest's protective friends, current boyfriend, jealous ex-boyfriend or family members may be present. You or she may also lack the immediate time to spend 7 hours building enough comfort with each other.
If the meeting location does not allow you the time nor afford a comfortable setting to sit with her and build comfort, you must move her from the meeting location to a comfort location.
All comfort building locations are marked by more quiet and secluded (though often still public) settings where you, your romantic interest and her friends (as well as your friends) may share in lengthy dialogue.
The location in which you first meet a woman is not necessarily favorable to building comfort. The music may be too loud for lengthy comfort building dialog. The crowd may be too congested. Your romantic interest's protective friends, current boyfriend, jealous ex-boyfriend or family members may be present. You or she may also lack the immediate time to spend 7 hours building enough comfort with each other.
If the meeting location does not allow you the time nor afford a comfortable setting to sit with her and build comfort, you must move her from the meeting location to a comfort location.
All comfort building locations are marked by more quiet and secluded (though often still public) settings where you, your romantic interest and her friends (as well as your friends) may share in lengthy dialogue.
Thursday, October 4, 2007
Pick Up Artist VH1 - Statements of Interest
Statements of Interest (SOI)
Similar to an indicator of interest, which is usually a subtle cue of some sort, a statement of interest is an explicit verbal statement that makes clear your growing interest in her. For example:
• "You know, your first impression was kind of so-so.. .but now that I get to know you, you are so incredible..."
• Buy her a drink.
• "When we met, you just seemed like another one of those California blondie girls. But since I get to know you, I actually feel nervous around you."
• "OMG, I can't believe this. Like. Can you believe we met at a bar?"
• "We're going to sit down over there, would you like to join us?"
• "You know what; you are actually pretty cool, I'm curious about you."
• "I have to hang out with you again sometime. -> Can you cook"
A well-timed SOI can work wonders.
Statements of Interest
Similar to an indicator of interest, which is usually a subtle cue of some sort, a statement of interest is an explicit verbal statement that makes clear your growing interest in her. For example:
• "You know, your first impression was kind of so-so.. .but now that I get to know you, you are so incredible..."
• Buy her a drink.
• "When we met, you just seemed like another one of those California blondie girls. But since I get to know you, I actually feel nervous around you."
• "OMG, I can't believe this. Like. Can you believe we met at a bar?"
• "We're going to sit down over there, would you like to join us?"
• "You know what; you are actually pretty cool, I'm curious about you."
• "I have to hang out with you again sometime. -> Can you cook"
A well-timed SOI can work wonders.
Statements of Interest
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